In fact just knowing that these very same minds can become very very focused in approach once the identification of that with that which resonates with them begins , should make the parents heart rest easy . Music , dancing and other art forms should be an integral part of the family atmosphere. One does not need to be able to sing or dance or even draw, sketch or paint brilliantly to appreciate art. All one needs is an open and receptive mind which evolves to being tolerant , appreciative and accommodating of more and more out of the box thoughts .